Service and Charity: The Pure Love of Christ

Today, Tawna Chery gave an EXCELLENT lesson on "Charity" and "Service"...I wanted to type up her notes...for those who did NOT get to hear it...or wanted some of the GREAT quotes that were presented:

Elder Cuthbert of the Seventy said "Over the years, many people have asked me 'How can I become more spiritual?' His reply has always been the same: 'You have to give more service.'"

SERVICE CHANGES PEOPLE

Service changes people. It refines, purifies, gives a finer perspective, and brings out the best in each one of us. It gets us looking outward instead of inward. It prompts us to consider others' needs ahead of our own. Righteous service is the expression of true charity, such as the Savior showed.

During his ministry on earth Jesus Christ spent his time serving and helping others. True disciples of Christ do likewise. The Savior said "By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another." John 13.35.

Matthew 22: 37-39 - "Love the Lord thy God and thy Neighbor as thyself."
John 13:34 - "Love one another as I have loved you."

We come to know and love people by serving them---we understand their circumstances, their challenges, their hopes and aspirations a little more.

President Kimball: "Service to others deepens and sweetens this life while we are preparing to live in a better world. it is by serving that we learn to serve. When we are engaged in the service of our fellowmen, not only do our deeds assist them, but we put our own problems in a fresher perspective. When we concern ourselves more with others, there is less time to be concerned with ourselves! In the midst of the miracle of serving, there is the promise of Jesus that by losing ourselves, we find ourselves.

"The more that we serve the more substance there is to our souls." President Kimball

President Kimball: "In the account of the barren fig tree (Matthew 21:19) the unproductive tree was cursed for its barrenness. What a loss to the individual and to humanity if the vine does not grow, the tree does not bear fruit, the soul does not expand through service! One must live, not only exist; he must do, not merely be; he must grow, not just vegetate. We must use our talents in behalf of our fellowmen, rather than burying them in the tomb of a self-centered life...we must expend our energies and use our skills for purposes larger than our own self-interest if we desire true happiness."

"One who serves and sacrifices goes to bed at night with peace of mind." (Russell C. Taylor - Of the Seventy)

SERVICE HELPS US TO BE CHRISTLIKE

What is our greatest potential? Is it not to be Christlike ourselves? What qualities must we develop to achieve such greatness?

In talking about those qualities...
President Kimball stated "We might consider intelligence, light, knowledge, and leadership. But perhaps the most essential godlike quality is that of compassion and love---compassion shown forth in service to others, unselfishness, that ultimate expression of concern for others we call love. Wherever our Father's children magnify their opportunities for loving service, they are learning to become more like Him."

Luke 10:25-37 - "The Good Samaritan"
John 8: 2-11 - "The Adulteress"

What do these two stories have in common? We should love and serve and not JUDGE!

Mother Teresa: "If you judge people, you have NO TIME TO LOVE THEM."

President Monson asked us the question "Can we love one another as the Savior has commanded, if we judge each other?"

"I consider charity---or "the pure love of Christ"---to be the opposite of criticism and judging...charity manifests itself when we are tolerant of others and lenient toward their actions. The kind of charity that forgives, the kind of charity that is patient."

"Life is perfect for none of us. Rather than being judgmental and critical of each other, may we have the pure love of Christ for our fellow travelers in this journey through life. May we recognize that each one is doing her best to deal with the challenges which come her way, and may we strive to do our best to help out." (President Monson)

Matthew 20:28 - "Son of man came to minister"

Jesus washed the feet of his disciples, feet that were hot, sweaty, and soiled with dust and dirt. He washed not their hands or face; he washed their feet. I think that he was teaching a lesson in this act. He who was the greatest was not above any act of service.

Matthew 25:40 - "Inasmuch as ye have done it unto the least of these, ye have done it unto me".

Are we above serving and caring for others? Do we make the time to be there for others?

Mosiah 2:17 - "And behold, I tell you these things that ye may learn wisdom; that ye may learn that when ye are in the service of your fellow beings ye are only in t he service of your God."

Why is it so important to teach our children at a young age to serve others?

Elder Cuthbert of the Seventy: "This is the way we shall save the RISING GENERATION from BECOMING a TOTALLY SELFISH, INDULGENT generation. We shall not save them by always providing them with fun activities which are INWARD LOOKING."

It is a wise parent that provides service opportunities for their children.

What are some ways you have done this? Some things you have done?

SERVICE SHOWS OUR GRATITUDE TO THE SAVIOR

We need to fill ourselves up with gratitude for His redeeming love, His infinite atoning sacrifice, His obedience to the will of the Father. As we become full of gratitude, it overflows into service. (Matthew 25:40 concept)

SERVICE HELPS US TO KNOW THE SAVIOR

Mosiah 5:13 - "For how knoweth a man the master whom he has not served, and who is a stranger unto him, and is far from the thoughts and intents of his heart?"

Elder Bruce R. McConkie has taught us that service is essential to salvation. "Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Being willing is not enough; we MUST DO. Progress is not created by contented people. It is up to us, you and me, to be uncomfortable in complacency, to refrain from being spectators, and be players in the game of life."

The wonderful thing about service is there is no end to it. We can always find someone who can be lifted bya complement, who can be blessed bya a kind deed, who can be strengthened by loving charitable serice. As we do this there will be more substance to our souls and with that our spirituality will increase.

President Kimball stated "There is great security in spirituality, and we cannot have spirituality without SERVICE!"

Tawna then showed this clip...May we, as Sisters, truly rise up...do our Visiting Teaching...serve each other...like the Savior...whom we have chosen to follow...Let us truly "BE HIS HANDS"....